R.I.P Bedlam

Ignuus66 · August 21, 2012, 04:11:29 AM

Hope she* had a long and happy life, but all good things must come to an end some day. Such a shame it was after your birthday...

Tapewolf · August 21, 2012, 05:32:32 AM

She, actually, but yes. I was sorry to read about it last night and I'm still not really sure how to articulate my sympathies properly. But I hope you're able to feel better soon.

Ravenscroft · August 21, 2012, 10:25:40 AM

Love you bunny!

We'll miss you Bedlam!

Sofox · August 21, 2012, 10:31:49 AM

Well, Bedlam is more...

But yes, may she rest in peace and my sympathies to Amber and Mason.

e_voyager · August 21, 2012, 12:12:08 PM

you have my sympathies.

Sunblink · August 21, 2012, 03:03:06 PM

I'm so sorry, Amber.

Feel better soon, and my condolences after your loss.

killpurakat · August 21, 2012, 05:06:16 PM

Having lost both my pets within the last year, I understand your sorrow and pain. It is not an easy fact of life to deal with.

But I know that your bunny was loved by you and Mason very much, and that's the greatest thing you could have done for her.

Drakkenmensch · August 23, 2012, 07:25:49 AM

So sorry for your loss, Amber. Beloved pets are precious, and losing one is always such a terrible hole in your life where there used to be a loving fuzzy presence. *hugs*

Grey Wolf · August 23, 2012, 09:25:44 AM

I'm terribly sorry for your loss. May Bedlam find many grand adventures and peaceful rest wherever she goes.

Gabi · August 23, 2012, 01:33:29 PM

I never know what to say in a situation like this. I'm really sorry for your loss.

Attic Rat · August 23, 2012, 01:55:36 PM

My friend the Garden Rabbit shares your feelings:
http://www.sysmatrix.net/~karls/Temporary/GardenRabbit_LoRez.JPG

ChaosMageX · August 23, 2012, 08:17:33 PM

Having owned over 35 guinea pigs throughout my childhood and watched them all die, or be stillborn, so I definitely know what it's like to lose a beloved small pet.
For me, there will never be another Gizmo, Phoebe, or any of the other precious little texel guinea pigs I used to own.
For you, there will never be another Bedlam.
But they live on in our hearts. We spoiled them rotten with treats and cuddles when they were alive, so that's what counts, right?

BabylonRanger · August 24, 2012, 12:14:53 AM

I've never had or lost a rabbit. But I did have hermit crabs, a bearded dragon, and two hamsters that I lost. I still miss them dearly (part of the reason I don't get a couple rats is because I couldn't cope with losing them every two years) and I know I would be devastated if my turtle died. So you have all my sympathy and empathy ma'am. And several offered internet hugs if you want some from a stranger.

Ignuus66 · August 24, 2012, 05:08:58 AM

Ahh, the hindsight is the worst part, I lost my hamster in december (right after my birthday and on christmas too, fancy that) And I felt that I was responsible somehow that I did not check on him enough, and regret is definately the worst when you know someone you loved passed away but you could have done something to help..

Grey Wolf · August 24, 2012, 09:22:08 AM

Nope. Not your fault, Amber. You couldn't have known how bad it was, and it might not have been the sort of thing you can stop, anyway.

(Also, Ignuus; don't blame yourself, either)

FairWage22 · August 24, 2012, 11:36:28 AM

Amber,

First of all, words are always weak when emotion is raw, and it is very hard to convey emotion in a text-forum environment without going overly dramatic or sounding deathly cold. Let me try, though.

Bedlam gave you the greatest gift a pet could. She gave you her last moments alive. She didn't curl up in her cage, trying to hide from the end--she was with you! She didn't need help with the last hard step that all living things must take.

Losing a pet is rough, we've had a half-dozen cats and four dogs in my life-time run on ahead from our household. And as much as folks may say otherwise, it never gets easier.

Grief is a natural process, we all go through it, and most of us second-guess/armchair quarterback the scenario "If only I...".

The best thing to do (in personal experience/opinion, at any rate), if you haven't done it already, is have a memorial service. It doesn't have to be big, it could just be a 'moment of silence', but something.

Condolences and *hugs*

Wage

Rakyth · August 24, 2012, 06:34:00 PM

Amber, from the stories I've heard, rabbits are rather prone to illness. What you can take solace in is that you gave your rabbit a happy and warm life in your home.

Abel-needs-a-hug · August 25, 2012, 03:42:32 AM

I can't think of anything to say that doesn't sound generic, but if you want advice for the grieving process, I hear chocolate helps. Or, in your case, tacos. (I really hope this doesn't sound callous.)

ArchTeryx · August 25, 2012, 09:44:17 AM

I truly do sympathize - my fiancee's rabbit also died suddenly about a year ago, and I loved her little mini-rex to pieces. Alex was one of those rabbits that had a whole lot of character under that deceptively cute exterior.

You deserve all the mourning time you need, Amber. Don't feel guilty about taking it. *HUG*

Tarakona · September 06, 2012, 10:12:34 PM

My Bunnicula and our entire furry family send our deepest sympathies to you and Mason. In the short time I have had one, I have learned that buns are extremely fragile. That she had such an extended happy life, and crossed the Bridge so quickly, is certainly a testament to your care.

Please know that she is with you always, knows your love, and will be waiting for you at the end of your Journey.

*hugs*